Goodbye 2015 and Hello, 2016
I love the feeling a new year brings. It’s an opportunity for a fresh new start in whatever arena you’d like… not that you can’t make that change any time of year, but there’s a new-ness in January that only seems to be found during this month. It’s a blank slate before Spring; an empty vessel waiting to be filled. I want to make a tradition of taking a few minutes to write and reflect on my year in the rear view and a look at the year ahead, so here goes.
Last January, I made some major lifestyle changes, committed to a yoga practice and did a round of Whole30, stepped down from some major obligations and commitments, and completely changed my health and outlook on life. I am SO thankful that I made a commitment to my health, my sanity, and myself last January, and I’m so proud of myself for sticking with it for an entire year. I’ve even managed to continue my yoga practice well into my pregnancy (with a few modifications). In addition to re-committing to taking care of myself physically, last January I began a SheReadsTruth Bible study and re-connected with my faith in a strong way, and for that I’m even more grateful.
word of the year
Last year, as I reflected on 2014 and set goals and intentions for 2015 (for the first time ever), I gave myself a word of the year: GRACE. This was a new thing for me, but this “word of the year” gave me something to meditate on, a quick, one-word mantra to pull up when times were tough, and it set the theme for each major and minor decision I made this past year. I tend to be very hard on myself in every way. I set my own standards really high, and when I don’t meet them, I beat myself up a lot. And on top of all that, I tend to hold others to these same high standards. While it makes me a productive person, it also can make me a very difficult person to be close to, I know. Each time I held myself or others to an unreasonably high standard in 2015, I practiced giving myself and others GRACE. The big man upstairs gives me grace every minute of every day. The least I could do was give that to myself and to those around me! And the best part of this word-of-the-year concept? It worked! I mean, obviously I’m still not perfect, and I still am too hard on myself and others, but it has helped immensely.
When it came time to sit down and come up with a word of the year for 2016, I struggled more than last year. Last year, the need for Grace was at the forefront of my heart and mind and the choice was easy. This year, I’m starting the year out feeling so blessed that I really had to think about what I needed this year. After a few days of thinking about it and setting an intention in my last yoga practice of 2015, I finally had it.
In addition to setting my own bar too high, I also have a tendency to push through the present and set finish lines for myself. “If I can just make it until tomorrow afternoon…” or “If I can just make it until Christmas Eve…” I can power through almost anything if I know there’s an end in sight. However, living from finish line to finish line leaves you wondering where your days have gone and missing the important moments that are fleeting and are what really matter. So this year, my word of the year is PRESENT. I don’t want to wish away this year, this pregnancy, this baby’s first moments in this world, no matter how chaotic, how crazy, how stressful, how painful, or how uncomfortable they may be. I want to be fully present in every little moment. Feel every little kick, taste every bite, laugh at every joke, feel every ache and pain, enjoy every stitch, every conversation, every sloppy dog kiss, and not miss out on a single thing just because I’m wishing it away until the next milestone, which would be so very easy to do at this point in my life. 2016, I’m ready for you! Each and every minute of you.
A quick note about the shop: Although I know I’ll be slowing down soon in a lot of ways, I’m so grateful for the creative outlet and community that we have created and that has evolved with us at Maiden South. We’ll be kicking off 2016 creatively by hosting Knit Night at One.Two.Three. (our old space next door) from 6 to 8 pm tonight. If you knit, crochet, embroider, or do anything related to fiber art, come do it with us for a couple of hours tonight. We do this the first Monday of every single month, so mark it on your calendars, join our Knit Nights Ravelry group, our Knit Night Facebook event, and come join other fiber-lovers for some fellowshippin’ and stitchin’ tonight at six at One.Two.Three.
Thank you to everyone for all the tips and recommendations for our Asheville babymoon trip! We leave in a couple of weeks and I literally could NOT be more excited. Really, I don’t think it’s possible. It will be the longest I’ve ever taken off of work, the longest vacation Wheat and I have ever taken together, and I cannot wait to get to the mountains to explore and relax.
Thank you, too, for following along with Oysters & Pearls for yet another year. I’ve been sharing my thoughts, feelings, recipes, knitting, projects, and more for three years in this little corner of the world wide web. Although the frequency of that sharing has slowed down, I am so grateful to continue to be here when I can and to have met so many wonderful people through it. Y’all are the very best and I wish I could hug each one of your necks!
I wish for each of you the gift of being fully present… being all in and being all there and in awe, this year.